Why I Love My Kids

The Pony has her own blog: Tales of the Dark Side. She did the whole thing for the Harry Potter post, which is a personal favorite of mine. She took the pictures, and got the puppy's excellent expression by putting the guinea pig on top of her head while taking the picture. I love these pictures, so I have to reproduce them here.

Career Opportunities

Bermondsey found a new game today--somehow he got hold of a golf ball, which he proceeded to toss and pounce upon. If he could only carry a golf bag, he'd make a great caddie.

Bermondsey, inventing new forms of service dogs, since 2005.

Same Planet, Different Worlds

I continue to be grateful that my kidlets are girls.

Today, the local paper carried a front page story about hidden code in Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas, which turned the game blue. High volume retailers are pulling the game from the shelves.

Meanwhile, here at Chez Evil, the kidlets found out they could both log into an on-line game.

"Great! Then we can be friends, and go visit each other's houses!"

I don't see Grand Theft Auto in our near future--or distantly either.

I am moving in an atmosphere of unreality--Harry Potter 6 goes on sale at 12:01, and we are going to be at the bookstore.

I am already wearing a numbered wristband which shows that I have preordered a book, and my number is 91. I am told that the staff will be calling numbers in groups of 50 to pick up and purchase the ordered books, so 91 isn't so bad. It's not being in first class, but it is like travelling with children or being a passenger who will otherwise need assistance.

I fell for Harry Potter back in 1999, when the Pony was in kindergarten and I bought the first book (in paperback) at a fundraiser for the school. I wanted to see what all the fuss was about. Now I am part of the fuss.

We go back to the store at 10 p.m. for the party, and will probably have to begin reading on the way home. I am not the only fan in the family, thank god!

Summer Time, And The Livin' Is Sweaty

Chez Evil is a charming 19th century farmhouse, with gables and decorative shinglework over the wrap-around front porch. The entire second floor is tucked up under the gables, so every room has at least one sloping ceiling.

The floors are all hardwood, and there is stained glass.

There is no air conditioning.

As we enter Week Two of above-90 degree temperatures, this is increasingly unacceptable.

The bitch of it is, I have been charged with finding a way to get air-conditioning installed, at least on the second floor. But, it's soooooo hot, that I literally cannot think. I have slowed down to--let's see, what is slower than a crawl--an oooooze!--both mentally and physically. Automatic lizard-brain type instinct has taken over, and all I can do is seek the coolest spaces in the house and just sweat.

This is not the pioneer spirit that founded America. All I can say is that if the founding of America had been up to me, we'd all still be living in Europe. At least until air conditioning had been invented.

How Perms Were Invented

Number one on the To Do list--buy a replacement power cord for the laptop. Puppy chewed through the original one.

While it was plugged in.

And running.

Why, yes, there is a new curliness to his fur this morning!

What Do Women Want, Anyway?

Apparently, Sigmund Freud's lament (or was it a real question? Hard to know anymore) continues to puzzle the male half of the species. Leading institutions are working on the answer, and have managed to come up with some candidates for rejection:

At some point in adolescence we all realize that building radio transmitters and memorizing Monty Python routines will not, despite the infuriating unfairness of it all, be rewarded with the love of a good woman.

Two down! Now, how many more to go?

(Quote is from Salon.com.)

To Do List--2005?

Courtesy of Vanity Fair's letters column (August 2005, letter written by Andrew Wardium Jr.):

Now that you have found Deep Throat, please find:

Osama bin Laden,
the weapons of mass destruction,
the Dick Cheney energy task-force documents,
the George W. Bush Texas Air National Guard attendance records,
the person in the administration who "outed" Valerie Plame,
the actual results of the Florida 2000 Presidential election,
a balanced national budget,
the anthrax terrorist(s),
full funding for No Child Left Behind,
Tom DeLay's integrity,
uranium in Niger,
Abu Musab al-Zarqawi,
and the person Carly Simon was singing about in "You're So Vain."

All righty, then!

Bermondsey Could Be A Good Boy!

We may have solved part of the mystery of Our Puppy's heritage--Bermondsey may be part border terrier.

We were watching the movie Good Boy last night, in which the star dog (from the Dog Star), named Hubble, reminded us of Bermondsey. The DVD had a special feature about the different dogs featured in the movie--a quick Google search later, and we think we have a match.

This is a picture of a Border Terrier--notice the black fur around his nose and mouth. When viewed from the side, a Border Terrier has that alert stance, with the hind legs that angle out behind, and a saddle of darker hair across the back.

We were always pretty sure he was part Lhasa Apso, what with the long soft fur on his head and the way his tail curved over his back.

Put them together, and you might just get Bermondsey!

Who Knew?

One in an occasional series--the things you can learn on the internet!

Who knew Teri Hatcher used to be a man?

(Thanks to Sky.com for the photos!)

Is This The Way The World Ends?

Following dramatic early morning raids in Leeds, the English police are revealing the results of their investigations into the bombs of last week. The bits of information I heard are that four men travelled to London from Leeds, met at King's Cross station, and were supposed to board different trains--going east, west, north and south. The three train blasts happened nearly simultaneously--the fourth bomb, on the double decker bus, detonated about an hour later.

The world reacted to these blasts as a confirmation that the Islamic hardliners continue to seek to disrupt the Western world. Terror alerts were raised and the world reacted with anger, fear, sorrow, etc. The continued viability of Al Queda was assumed and discussed.

But perhaps the story is more pathetic than we (or at least I) assumed. One of the four men connected with the bombings was found dead at the site of the bus bombing. While his age wasn't reported in the news I heard, he had been reported missing the day before the bombings by his family in Leeds. The reporter I heard said that "he had gone to London with some mates" and hadn't been heard from. A family liason officer was called in to interview the family in an attempt to locate the missing lad.

This is somehow even more chilling to me. These were not international operatives, who were planted in England and given some sort of cover in order to create a coordinated attack as part of an on going campaign of terror. These were four Yorkshire lads, carrying haversacks with their mates, young enough that one's mum becomes worried about his whereabouts.

According to reports from London, there was an interruption of service on the northbound line from King's Cross, and that may have led the fourth man to take a bus instead. Or perhaps he got lost, as he wasn't a Londoner. As a result, what was supposed to be a simultaneous series of explosions didn't happen as planned.

I find this disturbing for the same reasons that Timothy McVeigh was disturbing. This was not necessarily a threat from "others," but from one of our own. Someone who may have been born and bred down the street. Four "laddies" with the means to kill dozens of innocent people, and a disassociation from their own community, so that they do kill. There is no reason for what they did, no specific goal to be achieved--just destruction.

The disaffected are always with us--this is a sobering realization.

It Really Is A Man's World

I got my copy of Entertainment Weekly last week with the cover of Johnny Depp as Willy Wonka.

I have got to tell you, boyfriend has some seriously nice skin! Dewy, young looking, fresh...he could totally be an advertisement for night repair cream, or whatever he uses on that epidermis.

The picture on the inside was even more flattering:

I mean, can you believe that this man is 42? And, don't we have a collective recollection that he used to play hard and drink harder? How does (what really must be called) a middle aged man look so untouched by life?

Does he have a picture in his attic that no one is allowed to see?

Big Honkin' Earrings

My mother--fondly known to many friends of my siblings as "JoMama" is having a hard summer. The surgery for cancer was scheduled really quickly, so from confirmed diagnosis to actual hospital release was only about 5 days. The cancer hadn't spread, so the mastectomy and lymphectomy apparently got everything there was to get.

On the whole, she has kept a really good attitude about the whole thing. It helps that all of her medical providers can't believer that she is as old as she is, AND that she isn't on any medications. No high blood pressure, no heart medicine, no arthritis.

Sure--except for the CANCER, that is, she's really healthy.

The chemo, however, is a real bitch.

Some days are really good, and some days are...well, not. I guess it's even just a prophylactic treatment anyway, as there is no indication that there is any cancer left. According to the surgeon, it would be a mild course of chemo. "And you won't even lose your hair." Tell that to the hair that has fallen out.

Anyway, in her quest for the right "look" for a chemo patient, JoMama has started to think about wearing earrings. She's been seeing pictures of women with really short hair who wear really big earrings, and she thought that might look good. She's never pierced her ears, in part because she has a fear of needles. After 6 needles a week, however, she's kind of gotten over that. But her immune system is kind of depressed (or oppressed) by the chemo, so now is not the time. But clip-ons could work.

So, I went to the bead store and bought some clip-on bases to make some earrings for JoMama. I also got some chandelier parts and put together an intricate set of blue crystals. It looks pretty good--and after her hair grows back, she can wear them for belly dancing.

Things That Happened While I Wasn't Paying Attention

Due to the amazing in-home invention called "cable tv," I have been able to see a number of movies that came out while I was raising small children. Legally Blonde, Charlie's Angels, Old School and Home Fries. And I've discovered the Bestest Movie Boyfriend. Ever.

Ladies and Gentlemen, I present to you.....Luke Wilson!


I mean, he recognizes Reese Witherspoon's unique intellegence, when the rest of Harvard Law School thinks she's just an idiot. He takes Cameron Diaz dancing and thinks she's really good. He's the one guy with any sense in Old School AND in Home Fries.

He's even dreamy in the distinctly odd Royal Tenenbaums.

When Mr. Sweetie is out of town, and my other boyfriends--Jeremy Northam, The Edge and Kevin Kline--are ever tied up on a Saturday night, I'm calling Luke.

Britons Never Never Never Shall Be Slaves

The day cannot close without some comment about the recent terrorist attacks in London. We were recently there, and were in some of the locations were the bombs exploded. This felt even more personal than the 9/11 attacks, as we have such affection for that city.

Yet, as heinous as these attacks were, they are such a small event in the history of this city. In the last thousand years, this city has survived invasions by Vikings, conquering by the Normans, two bouts of Black Plague, the Great Fire, the Great Stink, regicide, civil war, restoration, bloodless revolution, the institution of non-English speaking sovereigns, the Blitz, and 30 years of IRA activity. London will survive.

I heard a snippet of an interview with a crusty Brit, who looked old enough to have survived the Blitz himself. His take on these attacks?

"I am quite annoyed with these people, who have inconvenienced so many, and for no purpose, as far as I can see."

The sun still shines on the British Empire, as far as I can see.

Separated at Birth?

In honor of "Kirk vs. Spock," here is a picture of The Edge, looking remarkably like Spock from "The City on the Edge of Forever." The look is explained by the following dialogue:


Kirk: Well, Mr Spock, if we can't disguise you, we'll find some way of explaining you.
Spock: That should prove interesting.

****

Kirk: My friend is obviously Chinese. I see you've noticed the ears. They're ... actually quite easy to explain.

Spock: Perhaps the unfortunate accident I had as a child...

Kirk: The unfortunate accident he had as a child, he caught his head in a mechanical ... rice picker.

As a result, poor Spock ends up wearing a stocking cap for the rest of the episode. Hey--it was a look that was obviously ahead of its time.

Kirk or Spock?

In the spirit of the classic boy game of "Ginger or Mary Ann," The Mistress offers her own choice game: Kirk or Spock?

Now, while I was technically alive during the first broadcast run of Star Trek, I did not discover the show until it was in syndication. Yet, even at a tender elementary school age, I knew I preferred Spock to Kirk.

Fastforward to today, and the New! Improved! version of the game. Yes, it's time for Bono or Edge!?!?!

This is a much harder game, as they are both impossibly cool. And passionate. And really good looking. However, the award has to go to the Edge, based on this fabulous quote (from today's Salon):

U2 guitarist The Edge on a key difference between his band at the time of Live Aid and at the time of Live 8 -- the hair: "I don't think I'll be wearing the mullet again … We can't take credit for inventing the mullet, but we can certainly lay claim to extending the envelope for what the mullet can mean … Bono committed the more egregious crimes against fashion with his Live Aid hair ... our shining moment in mullet lore." (Guitar World magazine)

Multitasking with Technology!

I recently bought this new laptop as you know.

What it was purchased for: to allow me some access to a computer--since with four of us and only one computer, I was always last in line.

What it is being used for: so my kids can play computer games and watch TV at the same time.

I can spot what is wrong with this picture. Can you?

Give Me Liberty!

We took the new puppy down to Iowa for an annual pig roast at the farm of a friend and former employee of Mr. Sweetie. During the two days we were gone, Bermondsey managed to chew through both his harness AND his leash.

I think we just found out how he became a stray...

Sunday Morning Snooze

Lying in bed, sleeping late this morning, I was awakened by a tongue on my face. No, it was not Mr. Sweetie. At least, not this time.

I open my eyes to find an excited little dog dancing alongside the bed, Mr. Sweetie curled up behind me, and the Bunny curled up behind him. (The Pony, for those of you keeping score, was already downstairs surfin' the web.)

As the puppy curled up, warm and fuzzy next to me, and Mr. Sweetie curled up, warm and shirtless beside me, and the Bunny lay there chatting happily, I realized with a shock--I love my life!

This has not been the usual state of affairs for the last 10 years, necessarily. So, this is a good thing.

"Gosh," I said (I say things like that now, especially around the kidlets). "I love my life. I love my dog, I love my husband, I love my little girl here in bed, I love my other little girl downstairs."

The Bunny: Is Daddy a knucklehead sometimes, like the puppy?

Me: No. He is a knight in shining armor, riding a white charger.

The Bunny: No. Just wearing his pants.

Mr. Sweetie wisely did not comment.